The term Self-made is often used to prove that the person you are has nothing to do with anything or anyone else. This is by far one of the truest statements ever made. For a person to feel as though no one else contributed to who they are or who they will become show within itself the lack of self-knowledge one has. Science has come to the realization that our cells which make up our being have a brain and it the Cell’s Membrane and this membrane adapts and adjusts to the environment. Meaning that every environment you enter or you surround your self with the makeup of who you are is adapting to survive. Consider every relationship both intimate both personal and professional has in some way contributes to your thought process. Your environment also contributes to your decision making, how you love, and how you hate. Since your time going through the 7 stages of life in your mom’s womb, your environment was shaping and reshaping you. Your subconscious was being programmed with habits from your surroundings far before you were aware of them.
Just take a moment and think about your experiences in life in regards to relationships and how each time you enter a new relationship you are different. It may not even be a big difference for instance if you wasn’t really a kisser and your last partner complained about it so much that before you notice your always kissing in your new relationship. In all honesty, our environment is what makes us who we are. It is the very thing that contributes to all aspects of our being. You are who you are because of life’s lessons and those lessons are created via our Environment. BUT YOU AIN’T HEARD IT FROM ME CAUSE, I AIN’T THE ONE TO GOSSIP!