You have to shut it down from the gate. Stop allowing poeple to treat you any old kind of way because you want to display your coolness. It’s ok to demand your respect from ths gate once you allow them to treat you any way then it only gets worst from there. You wont be able to retract later on and complain about those thngs and when they begin to get out of control you are the only one to blame. Self love is the greatest tool used to teach others how to love and treat you. BUT YOU AIN’T HEARD IT FROM ME CAUSE, I AIN’T THE ONE TO GOSSIP!